- You feel overwhelmed by life problems.
- Depression, anxiety, or anger are taking over your life.
- You don't know how to manage a major life decision.
- You are having trouble with a major relationship.
- You are having difficulty coping with a serious illness in yourself, a family member, or a friend.
- Your job is too stressful and you can't handle it anymore.
- You don't know what to do, or where to turn for help.
Psychotherapy, (or as it is sometimes called, counseling or talk therapy), is a relationship process focused on helping a person (called a client), who seeks out a counselor to assist them in finding relief rom a painful situation, such as death or divorce. A counselor will work with an individual, couple, family or group to help make a positive change in their life.
Psychotherapy is both science and art. It is an opportunity for an individual, couple, or family to talk about wht is happening in the present. The therapist joins them in this process and facilitates new ways of understanding and relating with self, others, and God. In talking together, we can learn new ways, that in turn, can lead us to a deeper self-understanding and better relationships with the world around us.
The focus of the change is on the healing or growth desired by those receiving the counseling, (the clients). A goal is to help people recognize and accept their own internal worth.
This process enables clients to express themselves in a safe, supportive, and non-judgemental environment. having a safe environement will allow the client to identify, sort out, and clarify their problem-laden "stories", and identify non-helpful patterns of behavior or relationships.
The focus then becomes to learn, when appropriate, more helpful coping skills, and identify and achieve goals that are important to them.
The client decides what will be the focus of the work in counseling. it is helpful if you are ready to focus on a specific problem/issue. This preparation will enable the client and counselor to make the best use of their time. It is also very improtant to tell your counselor if you don't think you are being helped.
Do I really need therapy? I can usually handle my problems.
How often will I meet with my Counselor?
The therapist and the client will work this out together with your best interest in mind. At the onset of the therapy, meeting once/week is usually recommended. Sessions usually last under an hour.
In many cases, a counselor will meet initially with you weekly. Research shows that consistency is an important factor in positive change. When you meet with your cunselor regularly, you will be more likely to be positively affected by your work. One-time counseling rarely carries any long-term benefits.
It is important to note that many times a client and counselor will meet less frequently, once the major problem is resolved. You might think of this as, "touching base", or "getting a check-up". Many clients find it helpful to stay in touch with their counselor for many years as a way to keep focus on the goals in life.
What will my first session be like?
It is important to consider that each counselor brings to the session his/her own style of meeting people. However, the goal will be for the counselor to first get an understanding of why you are coming in for counseling, and secondly, making every effort to get to kno you in a shortened period of time. Just by understanding this, you might put yourself at ease knowing that there is no hidden agenda. The counselor will also try to get a sense of what your life is like in the present, and also gather information about your past.
The first appointment is also a time for you to ask your counselor any questions that you might have about the process of therapy. It really is an opportunity for you to get to know eachother and consider the process towards working together.
How long does someone Stay in Counseling?
This all depends on those items listed in, "How often will I meet with my Counselor?' The nature of your problem and your level of satisfaction in your life will determine this. Clients going through a divorce or job change often experience their situation as having connections to other feelings from earlier in their life. Issues like self-esteem, abandonment, and self-worth can motivate a client to do work that has deeper meaning for them. Some people stay in therapy for a few sessions, and others find the therapeutic relationship helpful for years.
The therapist and client are best able to make this decision together. Usually taking into consideration, the goals of the client, progress, changes, ongoing needs, and sometimes, even financial considerations are all factors to that are involved in this decision.
How can I get the most out of Psychotherapy?
Take some time after each session to review what was said, and to think about how to act on it. A therapy session usually lasts under an hour, but you have many more hours in the week to follow-up on what was said.
Pay attention to your emotions between sessions. Let your therapist know about any patterns that you notice, especially any out of the ordinary. Write things down and take them to the session, if needed.
Psychotherapy is a partnership. It will be more effective if you are an active partner.
- The current events happening in your life.
- Your personal history relevant to your issue, and report on progress (or any new insights gained) from the previous therapy session.
- Depending on your specific needs, therapy can be short-term, for a specific issue.
- Or longer-term, to deal with more difficult patterns or your desire for more personal development.
It is most common to schedule regular sessions with your therapist (usually weekly).
- Guided self-assessment to identify life adjustment problems, personal conflicts, relationship issues, behavioral problems, family conflicts, self-identity issues, emotional problems, and/or life stage development issues that are interfering with overall life adjustment, emotional well being, and life satisfaction.
- Exploration and identification of the origins of these problems, conflicts, and/or issues, both psychologically and factually.
- Development of a plan for change to resolve these problems and/or issues, including both personal psychological changes, and situational life changes.
- Assistance inmaking the necessary personal and life changes, through coaching, psychological education, ongoing behavioral and emotinal analysis and feedback, emotional support, behavioral and cognitive training, and assistance in reformulating life goals/plans to achieve those goals.
Is this Christian Counseling?
At it's best, quality counseling and psychotherapy integrates the disciplines of the mental health fields and the theological perspectives of faith and God. I often have people come to sessions with specific requests to make their faith integral to the healing process. In counseling, we respect the faith tradition which a person brings and build upon that foundation for the purpose of gaining strength and insight to deepen their faith and strengthen their ties to the faith community. Many patients/clients have their perspective on what it means to have faith utilized in therapy, and as in all subjects, we begin with a discussion and dialogue about what they would like this to look like. We find a way to meet the need of the person who has come to us. We have partners with the faith community as the structure for our mission and ministry and deeply value the community of Christians who support the ongoing work of therapy informed by a sound faith and methodology in the psychological disciplines.
How much does Counseling Cost?
Payment fees for service are addressed in two ways. 1). We have an Adjusted Fee Scale for clients who choose to pay out-of-pocket. The Adjusted Fee Scale is designed to help those who make less money, pay less for services. 2). Payment is made through your insurance. It is customary for an insurance company to pay part of the cost of a session, with the remainder, or a copay and/or deductible paid by the client. When you call to set up an appointment, we can answer more of your questions regarding fees, insurance options, and payment procedures.
Working with your medical doctor you can determine what's best for you, and in some cases a combination of medication and therapy is the right course of action. None of our counselors prescribe medication. If you choose to be on medication, or if your counselor recommends a medical evaluation, we encourage our clients to seek help from a Board Certifed Psychiatrist. These professionals are medically trained physicians with a specialty in medicine relating to mental health. Horizon Hope can assist you in the referral process of gaining a medication evaluation.
- What are my mental health benefits?
- What is the coverage amount per therapy session?
- What is my copay?
- How many therapy sessions does my plan cover per year?
- How much is my deductible?
- How much does my insurance pay for in and out-of-network provider?
- Is an approval required from my primary care physician?
Yes, there are many reasons why you wouldn't use insurance. Some policies have high deductibles or copayments. Sometimes a client discovers that using the Adjusted Fee Scale is more cost effective. Also, some clients may have lifetime limits and may want to save that money in the event of a hospitalization, which can cost thousands of dollars. Other clients may choose to use the Adjusted Fee Scale simply because they do not want it reported to their insurance company, or for other privacy issues. However, the choice is yours. We have billing personnel committed to filing and keeping up on our insurance claims.